Let each one of you speak truth... - Ephesians 4:25 NKJV
Rule 5: Keep it in the laundry room. 'Don't treat each other with malice' [ill will, spite] (Ephesians 4: 31 NIV). When you're angry, spreading gossip is hard to resist. But malicious talk is like wildfire; it consumes those who spread it and those who listen to it. Don't display your dirty wash; keep it in the laundry room. Dirty laundry gets aired in two ways: 1) Open embarrassment. You say it where you know others are going to hear it. 2) Subtlety. You make jokes about their figure, family members and friends, etc., in order to belittle them. This results in embarrassment for the person you're angry at, widens the gap between you and makes reconciliation impossible. Solomon writes: '... He that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter' (Proverbs 11:13), and '... Love covereth all sins' (Proverbs 10:12). Paul writes: '... In malice be babes, but in understanding be mature' (1Corinthians 14:20 NKJV).
Rule 5: Keep it in the laundry room. 'Don't treat each other with malice' [ill will, spite] (Ephesians 4: 31 NIV). When you're angry, spreading gossip is hard to resist. But malicious talk is like wildfire; it consumes those who spread it and those who listen to it. Don't display your dirty wash; keep it in the laundry room. Dirty laundry gets aired in two ways: 1) Open embarrassment. You say it where you know others are going to hear it. 2) Subtlety. You make jokes about their figure, family members and friends, etc., in order to belittle them. This results in embarrassment for the person you're angry at, widens the gap between you and makes reconciliation impossible. Solomon writes: '... He that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter' (Proverbs 11:13), and '... Love covereth all sins' (Proverbs 10:12). Paul writes: '... In malice be babes, but in understanding be mature' (1Corinthians 14:20 NKJV).
Rule 6: Be part of the clean-up crew. We say, 'They brought it on themselves. Let them get over it.' They may have deserved it, but we can't walk away and leave open wounds to become infected. We '... forgive, even as Christ... has forgiven' us (Ephesians 4: 32). How did Christ forgive us? After we'd acknowledged, confessed and repented of our sins? No. '... When we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son... ' (Romans 5:10). God took the initiative, so forgive, before the other person asks for forgiveness. And should they remain your enemy for life, forgive them anyhow. That's mopping up after the war. Only then are you yourself forgiven, the wounds you inflicted healed, and your record before God expunged!
SoulFood Bible Readings: 2 Kings 18:17-20:21, Luke 1:57-66, Ps 139:13-24, Pr 13:25 Source: "The Word for Today", brought to you by Rhema Broadcasting Group in association with The Vine - www.thevine.co.nz™
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