If an apology isn’t seen as sincere, it is almost worthless. We sometimes are willing to hear an insincere apology from someone as a better than nothing deal. Though seen as worthless, it at least gives us a measure of satisfaction. We don’t believe the guy, but at least he is forced to go through the motions of apologizing and that is a mild consolation.
Perhaps it is more about seeing him humiliated by being somehow forced to say sorry. Like when your teenager is furious with you and spits out some nasty words and you insist that he apologizes. He responds with a loud, disrespectful “sorry” and you accept it because at this time it’s the most you can expect. It doesn’t do much to repair the damage, but it’s a feeble start . . . better than nothing at all.
Perhaps it is more about seeing him humiliated by being somehow forced to say sorry. Like when your teenager is furious with you and spits out some nasty words and you insist that he apologizes. He responds with a loud, disrespectful “sorry” and you accept it because at this time it’s the most you can expect. It doesn’t do much to repair the damage, but it’s a feeble start . . . better than nothing at all.
The real honest apology, however, is backed up with a sincere desire not to repeat the offense. Not like our womanizer who is just waiting to sneak behind your back, do it again and stand ready to say “sorry” once more.
When at all possible, the sincere apology gives a credible assurance that the same offense will not be repeated. This is why it is worth more than a dozen roses. The flowers will wither in no time and will be thrown out regardless of their symbolism. The sincere apology remains as a proof of good will and a real desire to make amends. –Bob Garon. You can call at 820-6107 or 825-1771 or e-mail at goldenvalues_school@yahoo.com.ph.
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