The million-peso mistake (2)

At this writing, the cops around the world have been alerted through Interpol and are looking for them. Chances are they will get them and they will go to jail, but not before spending as much as they can and having as much fun as possible with the stolen money.

Why they would think they could get away with this foolish act is beyond me. I supposed the sight of all that money sitting there before them was too much of a temptation to resist. And perhaps they believed that all that money would insure their getaway and guarantee that they could hide forever in luxury. And even if their reputation is smashed into little pieces, maybe they couldn’t care less considering that they are now multi-millionaires.

Have you noticed how those who have stolen big bucks no longer care if the whole world knows they are crooked even if they have never been convicted? It is as if the money is more of a comfort to them than their good name and reputation. The dirty money has succeeded in silencing their conscience and covering their name with a cloak of seeming decency.

Their children and their children’s children will have to deal with the consequences of their ill-advised actions. They too might be led by the stolen money to deal with the devil themselves in order to enjoy the ill-gotten wealth of their father. They will have to build a wall of money around themselves and look for those of like mind to associate with, since men of honor will have nothing to do with them.

The million-peso mistake (1)

Good morning everyone. In our life we always commit mistakes even if we don’t want it to happen. It’s like an accident. Anytime it can be happen. With the words of Bob Garon that inspired me a lot in life. He told us how to have a good quality of life. Not just living in this world. Learn to accept the mistakes what we’ve done. I want to share you what he wrote.

A few years ago, the bank my wife, Emmy, was dealing with, made a terrible mistake. They credited her with more than a million pesos that was not ours. There it was, a million-peso-mistake sitting in our bank account. Emmy never hesitated. She immediately called the bank and told them of their unsolicited “gift.” She knew that the money wasn’t ours and that it could never be ours and knew right away that it was a mistake that had to be corrected soonest.

It was, and the person who made the mistake called Emmy to thank her. It was a gaffe that could have cost her job and she was so grateful that my wife quickly rectified the error and saved every one from a lot of heartache.

I was reminded of this when I watched a report on TV that told of a couple who had been into a similar situation, but responded in a very different manner. It seems that somebody made a horrible error and put into the couple’s account millions of dollars. What the couple did was quickly take the money and run. They left their house, their work and their good name and took off with the loot.

Michael Jackson dies (2)

Organizers of the concerts at the time stressed the delay was not linked to Jackson's health.

While Jackson reigned as the "King of Pop" in the 1980s, his once-stellar career had been overshadowed by his colorful public behavior, his startling physical transformation and multiple allegations of child abuse.

Jackson lived as a virtual recluse following his 2005 acquittal on charges including child molestation and plotting to kidnap his young accuser.

Despite his acquittal, the trial was a body blow from which the pop music superstar struggled to recover.

Four years later, Jackson is still worshipped by fans for revolutionizing music, dance and music videos at the peak of his success.

The attention however paid to him in recent years has been less flattering, focusing on apparent cosmetic surgery -- which he denies -- his baby dangling antics and a decade of swirling child abuse allegations.

Born on August 29, 1958, Jackson made his show business debut with four of his older brothers in the Jackson Five pop group, and went on to lead the stage clan with a piping soprano and dazzling dance moves.

By 1969, the group had signed a contract with Motown Records, becoming one of the last great acts to emerge from the legendary label.

The Jacksons produced seven platinum singles for Motown, selling over a million, and three multi-platinum albums, selling more than two million. They moved to CBS's Epic Records in 1976.
Despite the early success, Jackson was to recall those years as unhappy and lonely ones. Eventually the family act broke up, as Jackson went solo.

In 1979, Quincy Jones produced Jackson's first solo album for Epic, "Off the Wall," a huge disco-oriented success that sold 10 million copies.They teamed up again in 1982 for what would be Jackson's breakthrough album as a composer and co-producer, "Thriller," which became the top-selling album of all time, with sales exceeding 41 million. - Agence France-Presse

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Michael Jackson dies (1)

It’s a shocking news about many of the people who idolize Michael Jackson. It happened so fast. I was heard the new this early morning when I’m listening to the radio while taking my breakfast. I also got shocked when I heard about it. He is a great performer so I’m sure Michael will be one of the great loss in the industry of music.

Pop icon Michael Jackson has died, a Los Angeles County Coroner's office spokesman confirmed Thursday, sending shockwaves rippling across the entertainment world.

Lieutenant Fred Corral told CNN Jackson, 50, was pronounced dead at 2:26 p.m. (2126 GMT) local time after reportedly suffering a cardiac arrest.

"I can tell you at this time that we were notified by West Los Angeles Police Department detectives that Mr Jackson was transported ... to the hospital, and upon admitting, he was unresponsive and was pronounced dead at approximately 2:26 this afternoon," Corral told CNN.

Corral said an autopsy would "most likely" be carried out on Friday but would not speculate on the exact cause of death.

"Everything is still ongoing. We will be responding to the hospital to move Mr Jackson to our facility where he will be examined to determine the cause of death," Corral said.

"As far as I'm aware, we were notified by LAPD detectives that Mr Jackson was brought in by paramedics to the hospital in full cardiac arrest and then he was later pronounced dead.

"At that point, as I said, there's no further medical history until we get and review the medical records."

This came as Jackson prepared to make a keenly anticipated concert comeback in London, his first series of shows in more than a decade and the first since his 2005 acquittal on child molestation charges.However those concerts -- billed as the "final curtain" -- had been thrown into doubt after Jackson pushed back the opening dates last month. - Agence France-Presse

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Motherly Wrath (2)

Sadly, such competition with one’s own children is more common than you think. When a marriage is not going well and a spouse turns to a child for much needed support and love that the partner cannot or will not give, jealousy, anger, abuse and neglect will often surface.

Dad is jealous of his son who is so close to mom. He resents his son and feels that the boy is receiving the love and affection from the mother that belongs to him. The boy becomes a silent competition for the mother’s love. And the kid is always at the losing end as far as his father is concerned.

You would be surprised at how often this happens. In similar fashion, when the daughter is dad’s favorite, the wife will resent the attention the girl is getting if she feels her husband love is wanting. She might deny it till she is blue in the face, but her irritation and impatience with the girl will be a sure sign that it is so. Often, the anger and jealousy will break out in open conflict as the mother and daughter make war on each other.

We always say that we want a better life for our kids than we had, but the truth is that sometimes there is a feeling that the children are far luckier than the parents. And, unless the parents are solid and mature, there can be resentment and anger towards them. Not something that the parent is ready to admit to, but something that is obvious to those who know the family.

Can parents become jealous and envious of their own children? Absolutely, if the conditions are right. - Bob Garon

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Motherly wrath (1)

Good morning friends. There are some mothers who loved their kds very much. As if they are their life. They care a lot to them when they are still young, and as they grow old, still our mother cares. They never stop caring their children. But some of the mothers were so cruel to their kids. When their kids made a small mistake, they easily scolded them and sometimes lay their hands on their kids. This is not right, because as the kids grow, they will remember all the things that their mother did to them. I read the news written by my favorite author, I want to share this with you all. Not only to all mothers but also to the children out there.

I heard a disturbing story the other day about how a beautiful woman, a former model, would physically and verbally abuse her daughter. The reason: as she got older and her daughter grew in beauty into her teen years, she became jealous and envious of the youngster. She would beat her and give her verbal tongue lashings. The mother could not stand watching her daughter blossom even as her own beauty began to fade.

Needless to say, the pretty teenager was suffering from low self-esteem. Her self-confidence and sense of self-worth crippled her badly. You can only imagine how terrible she felt. Eventually her father saved her from further abuse by separating from the mother and taking his daughter away with him.

Any mother who behaves in this way must be a very troubled woman with deep insecurities. When she allows herself to be drawn into feelings of jealousy and envy of her own flesh and blood, that is a clear sign of deep insecurity. - Bob Garon

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To Right A Wrong

Every wrong doing is a barrier separating us from God. To move closer to Him, the barrier must be removed. Restitution (described in the dictionary as “any act of restoring . . . of giving an equivalent for loss or damage”) is one way of accomplishing this. It is not easy, but if you work at it, you’ll find the rewards are great.

First, read the story of Zacchaeus (Luke 19) and not how he decided that before he could become a follower of Jesus he had to make restitution for his past dishonesty: “And if I have taken anything from any man by false accusation, I restore him fourfold.” Then review the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20). Make your prayer something like this: “Lord, I have done many wrong things in my life. Hel me to see now which ones I can rectify. Show me how to go about this so that in a small way it will ease the hurt of mankind and glorify You.”

Second, make a list of the wrongs you want to right and submit it prayerfully to God. Remember this is a private matter between you and God. Do not let anyone else see this list. Overzealousness in confessing sins is wrong if it involves someone else and hurts is or her reputation.

Third, write down after each wrong the action you feel guided to take. A letter of apology; or, if there seems no way to pay a person back, send an equivalent sum to a church or charity. Restoring a bad relationship is thorny; one way is to seek the other person out and personally admit your mistake. Go further and accept responsibility for things that happened which you feel were not your fault. If your effort is rejected, don’t feel hurt. You tried. Te wounds may take time to heal. Try again later.

Restitution is a good way to deal wit an overgrown ego. It also strengthen one’s faith and makes it harder to beackslide. The worker who returned the equipment he had sneaked out of his company found his will to resist temptations stronger. The more so because he acknowledged his guilt to is boss and fellow workers. Restitution always const something—money, pride, position—but the alternative is worse, and inner discontent.

Righting a wrong smooths your way to God agan! - L.E.L

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Heroes (3)

Indeed, great sacrifices were required of these heroes. Hardship and deprivation, fear and anxiety, were all unavoidable circumstances in their lofty aspirations to fight for what is right. Threats of execution were living realities for them, and which fructified in the cases of Rizal, Bonifacio, Aquino and many more. But these images of heroism were accompanied by an enduring spirit even in the face of death.

To embody courage under the most gruesome circumstance, and many of them were tortured, they had to repress their fears of pain and death. To embody toughness, they had to repress their feelings of vulnerability and sacrifice their time with, and emotions for, their families. To embody toughness, they had to repress their sensitivities. To fight the demons of the times, they had to repress compassion for their adversaries.

But the greed and megalomania of tyrants, whom these heroes have confronted, will keep on re-emerging as evil has a tenacious conduct that cannot be banished from the world. Even laws will not suffice to prohibit such conduct as even lawmakers become privy to the evil, the greed, and the contempt for the suffering masses of our people.

But the lessons of history are clear and the lives of our heroes are sufficiently tactile in making us aware of ourselves in the shaping of our destiny. Awareness reduces the chances of being manipulated by plunderers. When we finally take action on our awareness, it is when the hero within ourselves blossoms. And when collective action takes place, it is when the demons of greed, plunder, and corruption, start quaking in their steps. ericfmallonga@yahoo.com

Heroes (2)

There are three other heroes, whom I know through some affiliation with their children.

Noynoy Aquino, now senator, was a classmate at the Ateneo de Manila University. He once invited me to join him on a weekend visit to his father. With awe, I had been able to watch on TV the only man with the temerity to insult the dictator Ferdinand Marcos in his confrontational speeches. Unfortunately for me, when I gathered the courage to want to personally visit this hero, he already had a heart attack and his whole family left for the United States for his cardiac operation. When he came back, Ninoy Aquino was executed on the airport tarmac.

There was also another classmate at UP College of Law, Chel Diokno, who once related to me his visits to his father, the great Pepe Diokno. Pepe Diokno and Ninoy Aquino were the only political detainees incarcerated in solitary confinement at Nueva Ecija. Chel told me that Pepe Diokno had grown so thin in detention that he kept on holding the back of his pants so that it would not fall. Pepe Diokno was my mother’s lawyer and I had heard him speak so eloquently at lectures delivered in UP.

Another classmate, Atty. Gwendolyn Pimentel-Gana, related to me her family life as she visited her father, who was detained four times during the Marcos dictatorship. Those were difficult years for the Pimentel family. Today, through Gwen, I have done some consultancies on her father’s bills on children’s rights. I have been privileged with these surrogate and actual brushes with national heroes, who have sacrificed so much for our nation. – Eric Mallonga; ericfmallonga@yahoo.com

Heros (1)

Good morning friends. Tooday is the big celebration of our Independence day. It is the time for our freedom. Freedom of our country.

INDEPENDENCE Day celebration filled me with past images of heroes struggling for the independence of this nation so that our people could be free. Clear images of heroism crystallize when their lives become tactile in the memories of people and families who continue their struggles today. History lessons are not just obscure pages from unread books that gather dust in school libraries. They are actual lessons from the lives of flesh-and-blood persons who made the ultimate sacrifice to unfetter the shackles of our people’s ignorance, apathy, and cowardice.

I remember accompanying my mother, Consolacion Florentino Mallonga, in visiting her homeland. She passed by the monument of her great grand-aunt Leona Florentino in Vigan, Ilocos Sur. As she reflected before the statue of the aged, noble lady who wrote award-winning poems of liberation against the Spaniards at a time of turmoil and national enslavement by Spain, I stumbled across the Florentino mansion just beside my ancestor’s monumental statue with a plaque that read: “Leona Florentino . . . distant aunt of Jose Rizal.”

Looking back with much perplexity at that precise moment of my mother’s visit to our ancestral homeland, I realized then that my mother wanted to share the simple message to elevate me from my normally seditious character—that our heroes were actually real people, who struggled in the time of their own lives when they walked the surface of this planet and that rebellion had its own causes and reasons for being. That woman straddled atop the monumental pedestal, the name of the man in the plaque at her mansion, and the woman reflecting before her monument—those people are my real-life heroes after whom I have patterned my life in a desire to emulate the values they have ingrained in their descendants. – Eric Mallonga

June 14 is World Blood Donor Day 2009 (2)

The PNRC also upgraded its set blood collection equipment through the acquisition of additional apheresis machines, refrigerated centrifuges, refrigerators, plasma freezers, ultra low plasma freezers, chest-top platelet agitators, table-top platelet agitators, electric tube sealers and blood mixers. These were distributed to different PNRC blood centers nationwide.

It takes all blood types to save lives. It takes all types of people to give blood - plasma, platelets, Type O, A, B, and AB. The PNRC, as a premiere humanitarian organization, is committed in attaining TOTAL VOLUNTARY BLOOD DONATION through Red Cross 143 Program. In every barangay, Red Cross has a pool of 25 to 43 strong social engagement and sense of belonging can be the foundation of a pool of voluntary donors.

As the National Blood Program moves towards the goal of total voluntary donation by 2010, there is an increasing appreciation of these donors and their pivotal role in ensuring adequacy of safe blood. It is important that their contribution be recognized and valued by the community. To our dear blood donors, we thank you for your unselfish gesture and support to the cause of the organization in saving lives.

I would like to take this opportunity to appeal to every Filipino to be one with us in working together, by being mutually cooperative and supportive of each other, for the betterment of the National Blood Program.

Also, we are encouraging every Filipino to donate their blood voluntary to save lives. For information on how to donate blood, you may call PNRC National Blood Center at 3019968 or visit our website LINK “http://www.redcross.org.ph” www.redcross.org.ph.

Aside from blood donation, the PNRC, through its “Blood Samaritan” Project, raises funds to subside the cost of blood processing and testing. This program is a fund drive that will not only ensure the availability of safe and quality blood to everyone but most especially to indigent patients as need arises. We are appealing to the generous and altruistic hearts of the “Good Samaritans” to help PNRC sustain the operation of its blood services through their monetary donations.

Again, we urge you to join the global community in making World Blood Donor Day 2009 an event to remember. Thank you. - Gwendolyn T. Pang , Philippine national red cross SECRETARY-GENERAL

June 14 is World Blood Donor Day 2009 (1)

Good morning friends. Sharing something means a lot to everyone. Not everybody can have what they want. Those who are in the high class people and middle class people they have financially share what they have. Those who are in a low class people even if they want to share something, they can’t do that because they are also in need. There will be a World Donor Day 2008 on June 14. With that, I can say there is no high class, middle class, and low class people. Everybody will be equal here. Everyone can donate blood as long as they want. We are not talking about the status of a person this time. We are talking for something which everyone can donate no matter you are included in a low class people. Let’s donate blood. A small amount of each and everyone’s blood is a huge help to someone who need it.

Held every 14th of June throughout the world, World Blood Donor Day provides a unique opportunity to thank millions of people who give their blood voluntarily. Evidence from around the world demonstrates that voluntary, unpaid donors are the foundation of a safe blood supply because they are least likely to transmit potentially life-threatening infections such as HIV and hepatitis through their blood. They are also more likely to give blood regularly, enabling safe blood to be made available to all patients requiring transfusion. It is to these unsung heroes that the World Blood Donor Day is dedicated.

World Blood Donor Day creates a wider awareness of the need for safe blood for transfusion and the importance of voluntary blood donation. The theme for 2009 “Toward 100% Voluntary, Non-remunerated Blood Donation” captures this and can be brought to life with the slogan, “One Nation.One Blood.SHARE!”

As the leading voluntary non-remunerated blood donor recruiter in the country, the Philippine National Red Cross’ (PNRC) unrelenting advocacy has augmented the Department of Health’s efforts to secure the Supreme Court ruling against blood donation for money and for business. In September 2006, the Supreme Court handed down the decision to close commercial blood banks in conformity with Republic Act 7719 or the National Blood Services Act of 1994 with finality. Now, we already have 69 blood services facilities and will add 27 more so that every Filipino in need of safe blood will have access to it immediately whenever and wherever needed. - Gwendolyn T. Pang , Philippine national red cross SECRETARY-GENERAL

True measure of success

Good morning friends. Success? That’s all what we want in our lives. We want to achieve the goals we planned for our future and for the future of our love ones. I have read one article written by R. Valencia and S. Bismark. It’s a good article and I want to share it with you.

Eighteen years ago, a baby girl was born with hydrocephalus. She was operated on and survived, but never lived a normal life. She could not speak, walk properly, or play. Nevertheless, her mother made sure that her baby had a good life by providing for her material and spiritual needs.

The mother had her daughter learn the basics of spirituality: She first established the daily routine of worshipping the Supreme Being. Together, they offered flowers and fruits to the Lord. The mother lovingly sang and chanted His names as often as she could and played tapes of purifying transcendental sounds.

Prayers

Even if it took longer than normal, the young girl eventually learned to play the tambourine. She would clap her hands to show her heartfelt participation in the offerings. She couldn’t say her prayers or sing, but humming was her way of glorifying the Supreme Person. Limited as her faculties were, her offerings were perfectly understood and accepted by the Supreme.

Names

A week ago, she left her disabled mortal frame. Her heart and lungs were pushed by her deformed spine, leading to pneumonia and sepsis. When she expired, she was surrounded by her mother and siblings, who were praying and singing to her ears the wonderful names of the Supreme.

She had a good life, and it was made fuller by her relationship to and awareness of the merciful Supreme. She may have been physically retarded, but her progress in the spiritual realm was nothing to scoff at—and that was the true measure of her success.

Managing your Anger

Good morning everybody. I was taking my breakfast and I read one article. It was about the ancient book, “SHRIMAD Bhagavatam.” It features the story of Dhruva Maharaj, a saintly king who fought the demonic beings who killed his brother. At some point, however, his grandfather, Svayambhuva Manu, interceded and requested him to stop fighting, because he had already killed so many of his enemies, and there was no need to keep doing it.

Advice

Svayambhuva’s advice to his beloved grandson: “Control your anger, because it is one’s foremost enemy on the path to spiritual realization. I wish you good fortune. A person who desires liberation from this material world should not fall under the control of anger, because it becomes a source of dread for others.”

The younger man immediately stopped fighting, because he understood his grandfather’s purpose. He had already fulfilled his duty as king, and there was no more need for fighting. The actions of the saintly monarch in dispensing punishment were just and appropriate.

Punishment should be dispensed, but we should not allow uncontrolled anger, jealousy or pride to rule us. Wise men know how to utilize their “anger” properly, as exemplified by the story of a sage’s encounter with a snake.

Out of compassion, the saintly Narada Muni ordered a snake to stop biting other living entities. The submissive creature followed the sage’s instruction – until one day, the snake complained to Narada: “I have stopped biting them as you have asked me to do. However, they have begun attacking me – especially the children, who have made it their pastime to throw stones at me and antagonize me.”

The wise man replied, “Still, you should not bite them. But, you should expand your hood as if you were going to strike back at them. This will drive them away.” Lesson: Even saints should “display” anger when it’s called for to keep antagonists away. –R.Valencia,S.Bismark